What We’ve Learned About Faculty Connections From Our Student Bloggers

Natalie Bartolacci

Our student bloggers took on the topic of faculty connections this past month. They offered a range of perspectives on this important relationship in graduate school and had some great advice for managing this relationship. Below are some of the highlights of this topic’s posts:

  • Faculty can help you get ready for the next step (whatever that next step may be), so they can be great resources for you.
  • They are the leaders in their field—tap their knowledge!
  • Once upon a time, they were graduate students, too, so their hindsight can be your foresight.
  • Try to listen to advice from faculty before you question it.
  • Honesty at the outset of the relationship can help clarify expectations on both sides of the relationship.
  • Getting to know your advisor’s working style will help you use your time well with him/her.
  • Your mentor is a person, too, so be respectful of his/her time. 
  • It can be intimidating at first to hold your own, but you’ll learn the walk and the talk in time and with hard work.
  • To avoid Graduate Foot In Mouth Syndrome (or “GFIMS”), plan ahead, collect your thoughts, don’t fill the awkward silences, and know when it’s okay to politely excuse yourself!
  • Take advantage of extra help from GSIs and academic advisors.
  • The power dynamic in the mentor-student relationship can make things difficult at times (but there is support available when times get tough).
  • If it isn’t working out with your advisor and you can exit graciously, then do so. If not, try to make the best of the situation.
  • Look for mentors who can accelerate your growth as a person.
  • Faculty can help remind you of why you are here when times get tough.

To read all of the posts on this topic, visit the Student to Student page. 

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